I Beg Your Pardon

by Raymond on January 28, 2010

 acceptance

“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.”

To accept yourself for who you are can be a big issue, and for some quiet a challenge to achieve. I have been stretching myself to great lengths in order  to get accepted  and understood by certain people, but overlooked to accept myself first. I believe accepting yourself works  like the very same principle that says that to love someone you have to love yourself first. I mean it’s quiet clear, how can you love someone else if you don’t love yourself first!

I realized that life is much easier and more comfortable when I stop explaining myself if I feel people misunderstand me. I mean does it matter why I do what I do… whenever? I think it doesn’t because society tends to be very self centered. Most people, not all :-) I have been speaking to for the last year or so only care about their own well being. So instead of spending time on things that are not so essential to yourself  it’s better to realize where you stand and move on.

Life is to short to waste on  matters that are obsolete to us. Time we can use much better for things that DO matter to us. Things that make us feel good instead of miserable.

As we know standing still is going backward,  Our direction and aim should be “forward, as occasion offers. Never look round to see whether any shall note it… Be satisfied with success in even the smallest matter, and think that even such a result is no trifle. “~Marcus Aurelius

I am looking forward to speak to you soon again.

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